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Your Personal Brand is Your Superpower
Recently, I saw a Facebook post that stopped me in my tracks. A father was asking for help with his daughter’s job search. She’d been struggling to land interviews, and he wondered if anyone had ideas for her. Oh, they had ideas. “Lose the pink hair,” “cover the tattoo,” “ditch the heart-shaped glasses.” My heart broke. The message was clear: if you want to be “professional,” shrink yourself until you fit into a tiny, beige box. But here’s the thing—why would anyone with a pu
Aleshia Heckel
Oct 252 min read


Behind the Scenes: Content Creator Session
Episode 6 of the podcast details a recent content creation session I did with @leahziliak. Here are some tips for your own session: If you’re planning to work with a social media manager for a focused content creation session- especially one involving interviews, reels, or video content-preparation is everything. The more clarity and organization you bring into the session, the more powerful the outcome. Start by identifying 5-7 key themes or messages you want to communicate
Aleshia Heckel
Oct 111 min read


What is Manifestation?
Manifestation is the process of turning your thoughts, beliefs, and desires into reality through focused intention and aligned action. At its core, manifestation is about harnessing the power of your mindset to create the life you want. It's based on the principle that what you consistently focus on—whether consciously or unconsciously—shapes your experiences. When you align your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors with your goals, you begin to attract opportunities and outcome
Aleshia Heckel
Sep 291 min read


Do It Scared
Personal bravery isn’t about waiting until you feel completely fearless before taking action. More often than not, real courage shows up when doubt, nerves, and the what-ifs are all present. The phrase “do it scared” is a reminder that being brave doesn’t mean the absence of fear, it means moving forward anyway, trusting that each step you take builds the confidence you’re searching for. ...it means moving forward anyway, trusting that each step you take builds the confidence
Aleshia Heckel
Sep 221 min read


Donations for Female Homeless Veterans
In conjunction with Episode 4 of the podcast, here is a list of items needed by female veterans experiencing homelessness in the United States. (Contact your local VA Health Clinic to learn about the specific needs of the food pantries serving veterans in your area). Hair ties Hairbrush/Comb Toothpaste Toothbrush Dental floss Portable nail care kit Q-tips Sunscreen Deodorant Shampoo Bodywash Body Lotion Body fragrance spray in small non-glass containers Disposable face cloths
Aleshia Heckel
Jun 301 min read


What is "stuck" costing you?
What is “stuck” costing you? Stuck isn’t just a terrible feeling- hesitation and indecision have actual consequences for your life and happiness. While you’re waiting, someone else is going after the promotion, booking a trip to Seville, or meeting up with your one true love for a cozy dating app rendezvous. Suddenly your least favorite coworker is your new manager, your cousin Sharon’s IG feed is full of flamenco dancers, and your soulmate just matched with someone else on
Aleshia Heckel
Apr 211 min read


Why have a life coach
You might think that one of the reasons to have a coach is for accountability. Perhaps you'd be surprised to learn that I don’t believe in “holding someone accountable”. The book The 12 Week Year fundamentally altered my understanding of accountability: “Accountability is not consequences but ownership. It is a character trait, a life stance, a willingness to own your actions and results- regardless of the circumstances”. However, a life coach can provide a
Aleshia Heckel
Mar 151 min read


A life coach is not a person who has her “life together”
My mouse hovered over the “Apply” button. Was I delusional to think I should sign up for life coach training? The life coaches I’d worked with for the past five years all seemed to have well-established routines and a sense of discipline about the goals in their lives. I admired them and wanted the time and location freedom they enjoyed, while doing meaningful work that changed lives. One glance around my life revealed…a work in progress, to put it mildly. He
Aleshia Heckel
Mar 151 min read
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